Love Guru Pradeep Kumar Nair, a very bald question, Is there something else behind this question of yours?
PradeepKumar Nair Yes, because I feel people misunderstand such a beautiful concept called love. Can the concept of love to a wife be same as the love to a mother or sister or sister-in-law, definitely not.
Love Guru Arman, if you are looking for judgement you have come to the wrong place, please visit the nearest priest, he can answer such a question
Love Guru Nand Chaudhary, why she is not responding to you anymore, I have no idea. But I can guess. The most obvious is, she has realised the dangers of what she is doing, and has stopped. Or she has had a change of heart. Either is possible. As someone in such a situation, there's very little you can do, to expect permanence in a relationship with a married person is idiotic. You better get over it soon
Love Guru Res, I am sure someone cannot force you to keep in touch if you don't want to. Are you sure you don't want to keep in touch? If you really want it, it's very easy to do
res I know, nobody can force me or stop me to keep in touch with someone, except she. I tried couple of times not to keep in touch but everytime I failed against her request.
Love Guru Umesh Mishra, you have been an unusual husband, most I come across in such a situation will have reacted very differently. It was good of you to overlook her actions even they hurt you deeply, but now I don't know what to say. Because the factors you say held you back the first time -- family, kids -- exist even now. Maybe you should reconsider your decision, but you are the better judge
Love Guru B Srikanth, one can only guess why she is not in touch anymore. Maybe she got married and went away. Maybe she has changed her behaviour. If it affects you so deeply you can continue mourning her loss in your life, but I get the feeling it will be a waste of time
Love Guru P-B, unusual tale. What have you thought of doing? It is obvious she doesn't want to live with you, but what has driven her to that point, have you tried to find out? My advice is, before you take any steps find out the reason for behaviour, see if it can be changed (which will mean changing yourself too). If things still don't improve, let's see what needs to be done
Love Guru Pradeep Singh, can you re-send your question please?
pradeep singh my sister is becoming so tough. destiny dont want her marriage where she were engaged. boy mother, his relatives and their rituals not understand children happiness in togetherness. i and my family somehow managed our feelings and understand sister happiness but all fail. she dont want to marry someone else and meantime not behaving good with us. we are so bothered.
Love Guru B Srikanth, something tells me she doesn't want to come back into your life, and if you think carefully it will be obvious even to you. Many a Romeo has been laid low by virtual, unseen relationships, I think you have added to the list. Get over it, and next time ensure that virtual and real both coincide, that way you will avoid similar disappointment
Love Guru Nand Kishor, so this married girl told you she was unhappy and wants to marry you, or have you come to this conclusion by yourself? Assuming she wants to, too, my advice is, proceed slowly. As romantic as it sounds, remarriage is not all a bed of roses, there are issues, there are baggages that come with it. Think through properly before you decide to jump in
Love Guru Pradeep Singh, sorry, but I am not able to understand what you are trying to say, please re-send more clearly
Love Guru Nish, what are the options before you? Seems like you have landed with a problem, and how to come out of it is complex. It is very easy for an outsider to tell you what to do, but you know the reality. Before you consider anything serious, my advice is to try sorting out your woes through dialogue. Arrive at a solution acceptable to both, and see how it goes, before doing anything else
Love Guru Manoj Kumar Gupta, so she has broken off all ties with you. I am sure she has the right reasons for doing so, even though she may not share the same with you. Respect her decision, and let her be
Love Guru Reshma, it's your life, your future, your call. You have two pulls on you, your boyfriend and your family, and there seems to be no middle ground between them. It seems like your friend is not doing well currently in life, and naturally any parent will be worried about their girl marrying such a guy. But why did he tell them he was not interested in marrying you? That was uncalled for
Love Guru Avinash Singh, often, in such situations, the hurt to the ego is greater. Now she is a married woman, so forget about her. It is okay to look back at the time you both spent together with fondness, but to wish it would repeat is to ask too much. If you really loved her, let her be happy in her new life, and you find happiness elsewhere. Move on
Vishu Jeet Love Guru .. could you please reply me also., sorry Avinash for intruding
Avinash Singh hey love guru...the thing which always pinch in my mind is only that...couldnt we be the gud frnds for lyftym.....????????she really make me confidant that there is nthing as true love in this world.except mom,s love.:'-)
Love Guru Vishu Jeet, you are right, it is too early for her to think of marriage. If you are in a hurry, I suggest you look elsewhere
Love Guru Umar, I am sorry, but I am not familiar with Chennai to tell you of any low budget surprises.
Love Guru Anmol Prasad, as a rule marriage between close relations are not healthy, I am sure that's what's worrying your mother. To convince her, why don't the two of you undergo a test to see if everything will be okay with your children?
karanisha y u r ignorng him ??? if he love u then good na ...
Love Guru Jayu, if you really want to get rid of him, you would have done so. Are you sure that somewhere you are not feeling flattered by his attention?