Love Guru Pradeep Kumar, I hope it's not a case of love where the girl knows nothing about it till you spring it on her? I hope too that you and she are "friends", that is, you two talk to each other (hopefully a lot), go out together for coffee, outings etc? In that case, it shouldn't be difficult to propose to her. But if you have never spoken to her before, then I suggest you abandon your plan
Love Guru Abhishek (vivian), why did she cool off from you? There could be any number of reasons, that I can guess at. But to be sure, only she knows why, and if you want to know, I suggest that you ask her why she dropped you like a hot potato
arvint after 12 years of marriage she only have a daughter & her family want another child from her and they blame her always for not having another child.
Love Guru Arvint, so she is your friend's wife. So she already has a daughter, but wants you to give her a son/daughter as the case maybe. Well, you can yield to her but this is a complex case. Please work out the problems that come along with it, and if you feel confident that you can handle them, then who is anyone else to stop you? Except, your friend and, maybe, your conscience
Love Guru Raja Krishnan, A loving wife who you don't seem to love, a woman who doesn't love you but who you seem to adore. Can life get more dramatic? I too am curious to know how this plot to beat all Bollywood plots is going to play out, so do keep writing in. As for advice, I'd say you are in self-destruct mode and to come out of it
Love Guru Bongkim Singha, "confused" she says and needs time? Uh oh, that doesn't sound like good news for you. Who knows, she may still see virtues in you and come back to you, so whatever happens don't break the communication channel with her, else she will think you are not interested in her anymore. Reassure her that you are here, waiting for her
Love Guru Vijay Kumar Tripathi, you may be living in different cities but I hope you are still providing for your family? Given the situation in your family, and since you sound like you want a reconciliation, is it a wise move to live separately? Think over it? It could be physical distance today, it could be emotional distance tomorrow. Act before it becomes a reality
Love Guru N R Sharma, you are being taken for a ride, and I think willingly. She won't come to you, however since you seem to enjoy the wait, please go ahead and wait
Love Guru Gosh, Madhumita Gosh, that's a problem I am sure many married women face. I am presuming your mother-in-law is living with you? That's always a recipe for intra-personal issues. Your husband obviously dotes on his mother, which is why he is taking her side. But there are ways you can make your husband see your point of view -- perhaps you are not doing it right?
Love Guru Sudaram, wrong question. It is not, what to do, but what you WANT to do. Though questions arise in my mind. If you still love your ex,why did you marry another? Because your ex didn't want to marry you? So you don't mind spending the rest of your life pining for someone who obviously didn't feel the same way about you, and don't mind ruining what could be a life with a partner who loves you?
Love Guru Iamadreamer, well, for sure he doesn't want you to go over to admire his wall paint. What else do you think it can be? What surprises me is not that you can't see it for yourself, but that given that you are crazy about him, you have not been to his flat despite his pestering you to do so, as you say. So what gives?
Love Guru Anjali Bisht, so you cannot live without a guy who can, in an instant, disown you the minute your family got to know of him. Put that way, can you see how ridiculous your complaint is? That he is not interested in you is clear from your message, so what is it you are waiting for from him? A declaration of undying love? Marriage? Forget it, you are not going to get it. Forget and move on
Love Guru Ato-Ismailabad, while it's true that our parents want the best for us, sometimes it's also true they also impose their framework on us, making the children very uncomfortable. While there's no questioning their intent, they do want the best for their children, once in a while the children too need to speak up and tell them that they need their space. Your time to do that has come
Love Guru Yogendra Uniyal, if you can pour out your heart here, surely you can do the same with her? Don't just ask her what qualities she saw in you, instead share your misgivings with her, tell her that her responses are making you uncomfortable, and why. Maybe when you spell out your worries, she will make an effort to explain things to you
Love Guru Sameer Sethi, keep your attraction under control, before it ends up controlling you. Attractions happen all the time, the trick is not to succumb to them
Dev LG I love one woman and she is widow How I ask her for relationship. We chat on whatsapp but she reply me 1 or 2 msg then say I am busy what to do?