Love Guru Akhil Kaushal, how would one have reacted before the era of contact lists etc? By meeting the other person face to face. Has she taken out a restraining order against you? No, right? So go and meet her, talk to her, explain yourself, apologise, make up. Simple
Raj dhiman hello kya aap hindi m bta sakte ho rita
Love Guru Rita-Kotwani, as a parent I understand your anxiety, but tell me, what does your daughter have to say? At 25 don't you think she is old enough to make her own life decisions?
rita-kotwani my daughter seems to be carried away.its eaasy in foreign countries to divorce on tiniest tussles.if that happens to her she will have no future.we indians respect the institution of marriage and tend to remain rogether for life.
Love Guru Brat4life, hard for me to say you are doing the right/wrong thing, cos there is no right or wrong in such things. But given what you said earlier, have you tried talking out the issues you have with her? Considering how long you've been together, don't you think she deserves that at the least?
Love Guru Alok Mishra, long distance or close ones, relationships can only work if you invest effort, apart from the usual love etc, in them. Longtime relationships tend to unravel sooner, I feel, given that the insecurities mount faster. Again, there is no one-size-fits-all formula for success
Love Guru Jayanti Rao, I am not sure what you want me to suggest? Ways of being unfaithful to your wife?
jayanti rao no. I don't want tobe unfaithful to my wife. I love too much to my wife but since she is purely religious lady, she is not interested in...........hence i am searching out for my pleasure. The other lady i am talking about is too interested in me.
Love Guru Jayanti Rao, sure, since it's pleasure you are after, go ahead. But I trust you will be equally broad-minded when it comes to your wife seeking her avenues of pleasure, too, if and when
Love Guru Swagat, since you are living opposite each other, there must be so many normal times when your paths cross. Like going to the neighbourhood store, bus stop, auto stand, you name it. Surely it shouldn't be difficult to strike up a casual conversation with someone you see every day?
Love Guru Brat4life, you ask for help, and then pour out your love life and your problems, but you don't specify what help you want. So you want to break up with your girl friend of 4 years. Do you want me to tell you how to do it, or to talk you out of it?
Love Guru K Sailaja, at 72 years of age your father doesn't know what is acceptable behaviour and what is not? He is lucky your maid has not approached the law enforcement, only because she fears losing her livelihood. Your father doesn't need education, he needs a talking to. Firmly.
Love Guru Sujit Rathod, whether it is right depends on a) what you two talk about on the phone,and b) if your wife is aware of and ok with it.
Love Guru Pradeep Tupe, the age gap you mention clearly makes her a minor. You could land in big big trouble with the law -- do you think it's really worth it?
Love Guru Rahul Upadhya, what happens to her family pressure if she divorces and marries you? Has the family reconciled itself to the two of you getting together? If yes, then you have little to worry about, after all family is what matters most in such cases
Love Guru Hi Sinosin, get over your nerves, simple. Whatever you do, don't go in for Dutch Courage. Remember, faced with such a situation, most men will be nervous, it is not something that's happening only to you.
Love Guru Nitin Badesha, possible. Women are known to use this strategy to fend off unwanted attention
Love Guru Ria D'souza, any ethical issues in doing it? Most people I know don't feel so strongly against watching porn. Why does your girlfriend insist you do, btw?
Love Guru Ambani Organics, let me get this straight. Your boyfriend cheated on you, and he told you not to come back into his life, and you miss him, you can't live without him? But he seems to be managing splendidly without you, isn't it? You can try to worm your way back into his life, but I am afraid things won't change for the better
Love Guru Arun Joshi/Anna, your wife needs some expert help. There are any number of new age therapies being offered, some of which I am told are very effective for intra-personal conflicts.Maybe the two of you should enroll for one and see?
Love Guru Dhanpal, it seems to me you have been seeing too many Bollywood movies, don't believe everything you see there, it's a world of make-believe.
Love Guru Megha Nambiar, tough one. You suspect he hasn't gotten over her fully? You may be right. Many men have issues with applying full closure. Every relationship has its set of red lines that cannot be crossed, you need to sit him down and explain it to him patiently and in a language he understands
Love Guru P B, the golden days are after the marriage, not between engagement and marriage. Her behaviour is correct. Yours, on the other hand, is like that of a famine victim on seeing a banquet. Get a hold of yourself and wait
Prakash Sharma hmm one of my frenz who had to cancel his engagement becoz his would be was not happy with his busy schedule . talk to her directly before its too late
Naresh Kumar then try to make some new girlfriend, she erase her memories from your mind.
Prakash Sharma so u r waiting for her to find another guy.. if you know exactly where she works.what she is doing, u have to go and tell her as the feelings between u both is mutual
Prakash Sharma life will be wonderful only if life partner and soul mate r one person.
Prakash Sharma obviously because u think she has a better career than u . Maybe you have that complex. Or else you would have gone straight n told her what u feel for her
Love Guru Garla Raghavendra Babu, did it ever strike you that what you describe as 'silly things' may not be silly for her? For her, possibly they mean the most, and her anger is because you are not seeing it from her, vulnerable, viewpoint but are seeing it from your unthinking male perspective which tends to dismiss most things it doesn't agree with as silly.
manali-sutar How to tackle this situation. I dont want to lose him. Dont say to forget him. Coz that is the main part which i cant do.
Love Guru Manali-Sutar, you can hang around but seems obvious from what you describe that he has lost interest in you. In just two months, you ask? Yeah, it's known to happen. Now you can make a doormat of yourself with him, or get a life and move on.
Prakash Sharma why to get rid of her !! Just because she works for HCL ?