SUMANT MANCHANDA Alisha, when you have confirmed about his social behaviour being Flirtatious with other girls, do u think his bevhiour will change when he actually marries you. I don't think so, Please find some other decent guy..but not this one. Surely. Rest is your choice.
SAMEERA First of all, she does not like you. Just smiling at you does not mean she likes you. Yes you need to talk to her. I know it's scary to think of starting to talk with her, but that's the only way you have. Maybe whatsapp her?
Love Guru Vijay Kesarkar, first of all, you need a good lawyer to fight the 498A charges, so get one. And two, adultery is a valid ground for divorce, so pursue the matter using your lawyer.
Love Guru Chetan-Deepak Shah, it is your call to make, where your future lies. Obviously, there are irreconcilable differences between your wife and parents, and staying together is out of the question. Perhaps you could stay near your parents' house, with your family? Is that an option?
Love Guru Subbu, a confusing story, I can't figure out much, but if husband-wife are not filing a divorce petition, there's nothing much an outsider can do in the matter. If you are hopeful that a divorce will come through some day, at which time your chances will brighten, please stay the course
Love Guru Chandekar Mulay, I am unable to figure this out too, but maybe something about the way you go about it could be irritating her? Have you asked what the issue was? I mean, if the issue is you, perhaps it is time to change.
Love Guru Vicky, have you tried talking to her, explaining how you feel, the difficulties you face? Or you one of those strong, silent types who will put up with anything and not utter a word in protest, self-defence, etc? Obviously there's something troubling your wife about your current job, find out what it is. If you redress it, maybe she will change her mind too
Love Guru Sumant Manchanda, from what I can infer from the little information you have provided, she doesn't intend to meet you, for whatever reason. The possibility also exists that the whole thing was a scam, maybe you got off lightly, without any damage. Should you continue? If you want to test your luck further, you can, but I would advise against it
Love Guru Sandip Nakhate, funny chap aren't you? You've been in a relationship with her for two years, your families have agreed to the match, so obviously it was not a passing fancy, but when you are about to enter the mandap you are having doubts? Are you by nature indecisive? Or do you reserve the best for those you love?
Love Guru NN, the only way you can mend the relationship -- and there's no guarantee you can if she has firmly made up her mind -- is through perserverence. Follow Robert Bruce's example, what worked in the world of kings may work in the world of hearts, too, who knows
kpj married people are complicated... don't go after them... they want extramarital because they are bored... they don't leave their spouse nly use singles for fun...better stay away from her
Nitoo Today She again Sent me message Good Morning message " HE WHO DOESNOT UNDERSTAND YOUR SILENCE WILL PROBABLY NOT UNDERSTAND YOUR WORDS " what does it means did she like me ? did she wants to love me ?
Love Guru Nitoo, great you have fallen in love with a woman who only sends you good morning and good night, how will you react if she sends you a goodbye, I wonder? I think you are part of an sms/WhatsApp group to which she sends these good morning and good night messages, so you are getting them and started believing that they are individual messages being sent to you
Love Guru Narinder Khanna, so you are married and in love with a single girl who you think likes you. It's a nice little private dream, so why don't you let it stay in the world of dreams and go about the actual world as you usually do? Sometimes, how things seem to be in the dream world is not how they are in the real world, so let it be
Love Guru Subhra-Roy, so you think if a girl was in touch with you on phone and WhatsApp she's in love with you? If so, I am afraid you are going to spend your life with a broken heart. Tania may have liked you, but not enough to get married to you.And that's how things are in the world that lies outside the phone and WhatsApp, you better get used to it soon
Love Guru Jasin D'Mello, you sure she smiled before running away? So long as she smiled, I guess there's nothing to worry about. Have you met/encountered her after that incident? What happened then?
Love Guru Siraj Memon, first of all, is she spending her money,or yours? If it is yours, it should be easy enough for you to control it. If it is her money she is spending, well, then your leeway to tell her not to do so is very limited. That doesn't mean you shouldn't try, but do it very carefully, lest you come off as someone out to control her life
Love Guru Deepika Deewani, all men -- and women, I might say -- are possessive in a relationship, only the degree varies. Are you possessive, too? But, to return to your question, if you feel hurt by his possessiveness, maybe you should try talking some sense into him. Explain how you feel, and he may listen to you. If he doesn't, well, then you have an important decision ahead of you
Love Guru Pradeep Singh Rawat, like one would overcome all other crushes, I suppose. If your personality is such that you can move on to another crush immediately, it helps. If not, there's the customary period, which varies from person to person, that you will have to put up with the memories etc. But soon, over time, everyone gets over it
Love Guru Rahul, incomplete information. What about the lady's husband, I am assuming she is not single? And what about the pregnancy, what does she plan to do about it? And why is she avoiding you, when it usually the other way round?
Love Guru Rahul, and you want to me tell you what? What do you expect her to do? Leave her husband and settle down with you? What do you expect to do? File for a paternity case? Don't be daft. Neither is workable. What she is doing is the right thing, learnt to accept gracefully when things end