Love Guru Ajit Singh, it is great that you have a beautiful family, with beautiful wife and kid. And terrific that you have been loyal all through. There are so many positives in your life, as you have pointed out. So keep it going, don't throw it all away for some external pleasure. You seem to be handling your pressures very well, continue doing what you are doing, that's it
Love Guru Dhanpal, why not! Provided of course the guy doesn't come with baggage issues and doesn't develop ego hassles. Which, you will agree, is a rather tall order. Is yours a rhetorical question, or are you talking about someone specific?
Love Guru Sushanta Chakraborty, and you want me to tell you if she feels the same way towards you? Maybe she does, maybe she is taking a little bit of time to warm up to let you know, maybe she is checking you out, being sure about you, who knows? But as I always say, if a girl is attracted to you, there's no way you can miss the signals. So she hasn't sent out any signal so far, but she still could
sushanta-chakraborty Thank you, very much Love Guru. your words feels like heaven. I have set my antenna in all directions, i don't wanna miss any signal from her.
Love Guru Suhail Khan, tough situation. But since is the first such incident, I suggest you put the past behind you and move on. At the same time, also keep the cousin away from your house, and avoid social engagements with him. There's no need to keep up pretences.
Love Guru Jasin Dmello, obviously there's a problem, but the puzzle is why she is not telling you what it is. Maybe she is just tired of handling the home, maybe she wants a career and not remain a home-maker, maybe she wants out, I don't know. But her behaviour certainly is puzzling. Sometimes families help in such situations, have you tried roping in someone she trusts?
sushanta-chakraborty Hi Love Guru :) I am a big fan of yours. Finally found this page today, and luck by chance it was Thursday.I have already asked my question to you. Please take a look.
Love Guru Seema Dutt, it is good that you are feeling wary, where it comes to matters of the heart there's no point in being in a tearing hurry. Take your time, learn more about the boy, his friends etc, and in the meantime ask yourself too if you are ready for another relationship so soon. Will the past repeat? One can never know unless one jumps into the future, isn't it?
Love Guru Soninisha, is this a day for such questions. Ramesh Mehta below had a similar question, and now you... The point is clear, if you don't want to or can't marry the person who you say you love, for god's sake let him get married to someone else. If you can't handle the situation, now turn it around and put yourself in his place, maybe you will then see how ridiculous you sound
Love Guru Ramesh Mehta, this is called I love to have my cake and eat it too syndrome. So you love this person, but you can't marry him. But when you realise he is marrying someone else, you are filled with sorrow. If it matters to you, overcome your reasons for not marrying him. If you can't, well, then learn to handle your sorrow
Love Guru Leena Ben, your situation is most unusual. You and your ex-boyfriend still live in the same room, and live like a couple? Why would you do that? You may feel it is one way of keeping him with you but it is unlikely that he is going to come back into your life. I suggest you two move out and away from each other, and get on with your lives
leena ben wish that was easy i love him so much that i cant live without him i gave 8 yrs to that relationship spent a lot now in debt because of that gone back in my carrier he have moved a head he is a top gun in a mnc now dont know after eight years dont know where to go what to do in life. completely messed up. he seems to be happy without me and see me as a burden now. dont know why people change
Love Guru Nitoo, it means you are part of her sms group, nothing more, at least of now. Don't let mere smses give you wrong ideas about what a woman has on her mind, it's likely she may not even remember who are part of her sms group, and could be simply broadcasting it to her group. So let it be
Nitoo Thanks still i don't know why she is ending messages on what's app one to one even when i dont reply she ask me where you are ?? how are you ?? what should i think ... once i send message to her MY KISSES ON UR LIPS she send smile photo what should i think ... she loves me or not or just passing her time
Love Guru Rajesh Gambhir, if they are happy doing what they are doing, let them continue doing it, and it is very sweet of you to write on behalf of your friend, wish everyone had a friend like this
Love Guru Degonta Bora, she is right, at 26 she feels that it is too early for her to get married, while at 34 you feel you are getting on in age. How do you reconcile the two contrasting points? Perhaps you could talk to her and find out whether marriage figures anywhere at all in her plans, and if so, when. If her reply is fine by you, then it's great news all around, isn't it?
Love Guru P-B, I can imagine how you feel but see how she feels about her, being transplanted to another society, a different lifestyle than the one she got used to for 12 years, so try and be understanding, see how you can make her life better, as close to what she had overseas, and you will find that she is fine
Love Guru Seema-Kadam, so you had a relationship outside your marriage, and now he is about to get married to someone else. I can understand how you feel about it, but what is being suggested, that you also live with the couple under a pretext, is not correct, it could damage everyone's life beyond repair. Married folk, in such situations, have little choice, so wipe your tears, and move on with your life
Love Guru Vineet Khare, are our cities safe? Is driving safe? One can sit at home and be safe, or, knowing the dangers outside, take precautions and have a good experience. The same is the case with social media and dating apps. There could be frauds lurking there looking for gullible types, and if you are the kind who surrenders your ATM PIN easily to strangers, stay away from them
Love Guru Vineet Khare, I'd replied to you last week: I cannot speak for people or explain why they think they way they do, I guess it being a free world and all, everyone is entitled to their views, on marriage, everything. Some people think love marriage is better, some think arranged married is important, in balance it's good that people think marriage, whether love or arranged, is good, isn't it?
Love Guru Rahul, incomplete information. What about the lady's husband, I am assuming she is not single? And what about the pregnancy, what does she plan to do about it? And why is she avoiding you, when it usually the other way round?
Love Guru Santosh Patel, short-tempered she maybe, but still there needs to be a trigger to set her off, find out what the trigger, most likely it will be something to do with you. Set it right, and you will find there's no reason for her to lose her cool
Love Guru Anirudh Karthik, there's no tips, this is not some kind of exam or race for which some tips can be passed on. When the opportunity presents itself before you, you will find that your shyness will have left you. Don't worry too much about it
Love Guru Roshan Parkar, this is called being possessive which, for some, is a way of showing love. It is about belonging and being belonged. It can feel nice some times, and stifling at other times. If you feel your girlfriend is overdoing it, maybe you should tell her so gently, how it is affecting your normal life
Love Guru Vineet Khare, I cannot speak for people or explain why they think they way they do, I guess it being a free world and all, everyone is entitled to their views, on marriage, everything. Some people think love marriage is better, some think arranged married is important, in balance it's good that people think marriage, whether love or arranged, is good, isn't it?
Love Guru Mahima Das, he could be right. But there is always an 'on the other hand' scenario in such situations, what if it kicks into play? There is nothing called over-caution in such matters, I think you should lay out the rules of engagement clearly with your boyfriend so there's no future shock coming your way
Love Guru Mahima Das, I had said this last week, that he could be right. But there is always an 'on the other hand' scenario in such situations, what if it kicks into play? There is nothing called over-caution in such matters, I think you should lay out the rules of engagement clearly with your boyfriend so there's no future shock coming your way
Love Guru Lalit Gera, that's really sweet of you to write in on behalf of your friend, if only everyone was so lucky to have such a friend...What she should do depends on what she wants to do, does she want to marry him? In which case yes, she should tell him of her past -- who knows, since he didn't know of it so far, it's possible he may change his mind, but that's a risk she will have to take