Love Guru Deshpande Vishwajeet, there is no free talk, all conversation is charged, whether on landline or mobile phone. One person has to pay the price. But I find it amazing that for someone who is not ready to talk freely, she has told you she loves you!
Love Guru Nitoo, are you sure you are not part of the same WhatsApp group as this school teacher which is why you are getting her messages? Otherwise don't you think it's odd she should be sending such messages to someone she has never met?
Nitoo Yes she knows me and she send sms also she ask me my activity but when I called and asked her to meet she said I have lot of work she is also old 40 yrs I know her but we never met what should i think
Love Guru N R Sharma, when you say she is not getting a chance to come out of her present relationship, you mean what exactly? Is the muhurat not right or something? Are you sure she is not stringing you along? I mean, if she has decided to leave her husband, what can be stopping her except for her own lack of desire?
Love Guru Mitul Shah, maybe your approach is all wrong. Maybe you are approaching girls with the notion of wanting a serious relationship, which communicates itself and is putting off people. I mean, relationships are organic, they happen, you can't force them to happen just because you want it. So my advice is,drop that attitude, be normal with girls around you, and you will find that all goes well
kavita bavekar but I don't want to break his family too.He says there is no bond remaining between him and his wife so any which ways he will be staying separately but he will be supporting his kids financially.Also we both are from different religions. Please advise what should I do as I am really confused.
Love Guru Kavita Bavekar, it's hard to advise someone in this situation. He may be sincere, but he could also be a fraud trying to seduce you with a sob story. And when you say that you don't want to break up his family, what exactly is the role you are seeing for yourself vis-a-vis him? A married man's girlfriend? Be clear in your mind about the situation, which seems to be loaded entirely in his favour
Love Guru Interestingly, Kavita Bavekar, 4 months ago while in college you had a crush on a fellow student and wrote in asking what you should do. And today, where it concerns a married man, you had no such doubts or thoughts
Tina Roy Now I am trying to move on. But it is so difficult for me. He was in every where now suddenly there is a big hole. I feel alone sad depressed betrayed. I am not a coward I will not kill myself but I am not able to live as well. I surely dont want him back cause I dont trust him anymore but what should I do? How to find a reason to live?
Love Guru Tina Roy... so your raison d'etre was your boyfriend? Come on, there's more to life than pinning it on a person's presence or absence in one's life. I don't mean to take away the 9 good years (okay, 7 good years) you spent with him, but be glad it's over when it's over. It could've been worse. So please grieve its end, get it all out, and shut the door on it. There's more to life, you'll find out
shivneri My issue is a guys obsession for young girls...we used to have child marriages where girls were 16 and the husb was 40 or above..guys prefer very young females...he is not satisfied with wife..what is tge future of marriage bec every relationship will end with marriage..how secure is a females future...
shivneri Do u agree that marr should be abolished since men dont stay fajthful..to have kids one can donate sperm or like wjth animals they mate when they want kids..i have seen guys in my office wjth half age girls.m.married guys...why should females marry
Love Guru Shivneri,I see your point but I am sure what your issue is? If you have a relationship issue, do let me know
Love Guru Vaibhav Pathrikar, my sympathies over your plight, I can imagine what you are going through, torn between parents and wife who doesn't want to live with them. What is your parents' take in all this, I am curious to know. Anyway, have you thought of meeting your wife midway? Maybe the solution to your problem is to find a place close to your parents' house, thereby you are at hand, yet on your own
Love Guru Anand, I am afraid you alone cannot convince her father, your girlfriend too has to be involved in it. Have you met her parents? If you have not, you cannot blame them for thinking that you are some wastrel, and not an engineer with an MNC earning a decent sum. It always helps to know the partner's parents, they also find it reassuring to put a face to the name.
Love Guru Vikki Thorat, although she is ignoring you, I presume she has not broken up with you as yet? If she has not, she soon will if instead of asking her what is wrong and what you can do, you continue to seek advice from others including me. Please don't waste any more time, talk to her and find out what is ailing her, and do the needful to set the situation right, since you say you love her so much
Love Guru Aim, good to know you saw a young girl bank officer in a bank. When you say 'good communication' between the two of you, I presume you went there on banking-related work, something she is hired to communicate well on. Don't jump to any conclusions from that, please, or rush to propose to her, it may have the opposite effect in fact.
Love Guru Hemant Maurya, so you proposed to a girl, so she said she was not interested in you. So is that the end of your world? No, right? So stop moping around, you've done enough of moping about over this, and get back on your life. Acceptance and rejection are a part of life, there's nothing to be afraid of or lose one's self-esteem
Love Guru Rajiv Pratap, this is unusual. You play the knight in shining armour, not once but twice but the fair lady goes to someone else? What can I say, but then the final choice rests with her, and I suggest that you respect her decision. Since you good friends,it's better that you continue to remain so, at least you will be in the periphery of her existence, which is better than not being around her.
rajiv pratp Dear love guru,Thanks for replying and valuable suggestion , exactly the same thing i am doing right now , but to be a hopeful is the life , that anaother man is now transfer to the other city is there any chance of heart turnaround of her in near future, still myself is taking care of her in every aspect and she also pay attantion to me during office tell me way that she can accept my feeling