rangarajan rajan Gopi, continue the relationship, but do not commit. Time will give you the answer. either the guy will go or your interest(the girl) will leave you.
gopi nath I didn't get, Should i not go ahead with that new girl, Since she is not loyal to me even after telling not keep that in touch . Please tell me little detailedly, I don't want my second life to get worst than first one . Pls suggest.
Love Guru Rakeshnram, is it "bad"? What do you think? If you didn't think it was, you wouldn't be writing in, right? Could it be that you think it's bad but you want to be assured that it isn't, it happens all around us, and hey, after all you did try to convince your wife, it was only when she refused to yield that you had to do this. Whatever. If it pricks your conscience, you can't be feeling good right?
aditya-misra Dear Rakesh,What I would suggest is having patience. Man and wife start their life together to live the life together, not just to have sex. Sex is important though. You have married her and you 2 have taken each other's responsibility. So be there, she is deprived of a very very pleasant and essential aspect of life's pleasure. Educate her slowly, so that she can love her life more and you too.
aditya-misra You will have to be patient and loving, love her body, love her eyes, do not ever try to take her to sex, a big no for that. But keep loving her and soften her. She might have had a bad experience in her past, even in her past life, which is deterring her from sex, let her overcome this situation through love. And believe me, the day this dam will break, she will let all the lust flow to you.
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Love Guru P B, possessive is all fine, but you surely know that no two people react the same way to situations, people, relationships? If her different behaviour is bothering you so much, you should discuss it with her, and see what she has to say. Could be she finds your attitude crowding her you, ever thought about it?
manali-sutar How to tackle this situation. I dont want to lose him. Dont say to forget him. Coz that is the main part which i cant do.
Love Guru Manali-Sutar, you can hang around but seems obvious from what you describe that he has lost interest in you. In just two months, you ask? Yeah, it's known to happen. Now you can make a doormat of yourself with him, or get a life and move on.
Love Guru Manali-Sutar, sounds like a deal made in hell. Are you sure you are not cheapening yourself? Do you enjoy being in an abusive, worthless relationship? No, right? So what are you doing with someone who has clearly indicated to you that he wants out?
Love Guru Rahulghadge234, whatever gave you the idea to take this ill-advised step? From what you tell me, the girl has no interest in you. I suggest you respect her decision, or attitude as you call it, and leave her alone
Love Guru Yashveer, before you propose, are you sure the girl harbours similar feelings for you, have their been indications to the effect, or is it a lonely furrow you are ploughing and expect the girl to reciprocate because that's how it happens in films? If she has shown signs of being interested in you, proceed with confidence. If not, be very careful
Love Guru Megha Nambiar, difficult to say. Couples who break up sometimes remain in touch, I think it is always good to maintain civility. But that shouldn't give either party ideas about the other still wanting to spend time or revive the relationship. So don't bet too much on what would happen
Love Guru Ravi, up to you wnat you should do. Frankly, from what you say, it seems like a situation unfair to you. If I were you, I would move on
Love Guru Nita Nagpal, breaking the ice with a 5-year-old is not the same as with an adult. And 5 year olds too have their own little fears, insecurities, especially over a step mother. You are not going to win him over overnight, have patience, lots of it, understand you are dealing with a child, give him time. I am sure he will come around slowly
Love Guru Anil, nothing. A girl could seem like sending out confusing signals but more often than not it is a way of plumbing your reaction. When she says she wants a husband like you or that she is not looking for a serious relationship, she is checking to see how you are reacting to it. Hope that helps you the next time!
Love Guru Anjukakkar, I presume you have tried to air your woes, or tried discussing them with your partner? How did it go? Have you tried going on a solo holiday and let your partner manage on his own? Most husbands tend to realise the wife's worth when she is not around picking up after them, putting food on the table. Temporary absence could change things for the better, try it?
Love Guru Raju Vohra, men have problems discussing problems in a relationship. Perhaps there's something in the manner of the arguments you are having... Does he have problems in the relationship, or is it only your problems that come to the fore? In which case he could probably be feeling hounded. Try a different tack the next time?
Shammi Khandelwal Hi Rahul ...U was in relation with a girl then u should have got marry with her....but you did not.....so she is free to marry with anyone ...........you cant stop her now.....let her go and move on........
Love Guru milind deogaonkar, work matters too, for often it puts food on the table and a roof over the head, so let's not diss it too much. But yeah, too much focus on work could rob life of fun, so I know what you mean. If you think his excess focus on work is a means of avoiding spending time with you, you must discuss it with it and point out the stress it places on the relationship.
Rahul I was ready to die 4her even once I thought to jump from her 11th floor complex, but she betraid me most ungrateful lady, I have taken every small thing including her post graduation, scooty, lap top, gold, dresses, pocket money, recharging her TV,Cell,family ticket lengthy list but I never expected oneday she will ditch me. God will take care of her.
manish mudotiya Hey Rahul, I am extremely sorry about what has happened. But i would suggest lets take it offline from here. You could connect with me on mail: email@example.com. since i m also going through same patch may b we cld help each other a bit to move on in life.
Rahul Already I have moved out if that bith ditch me I am not going to cry for her neither commit suicide, I will ensure she can be happy in her life bcos she cheated me betraid me, so after doing all those things to her if she cheats me how come she can be happy.
Love Guru Rahul Upadhya, what happens to her family pressure if she divorces and marries you? Has the family reconciled itself to the two of you getting together? If yes, then you have little to worry about, after all family is what matters most in such cases
Rahul Upadhye Guru, If her family had considered the whole scene previously, her marriage wouldn't had taken place. I'm worried about her. She told me that her husband is non-compatible & she isn't interested in staying with him. I asked her to divorce him. But she's scared of the society & her parents reputation. She won't lie to me on matters related to her. Its pretty tough situation she is in. Help us out.
Phalin Shah So you want to beat her ? Are you implying that? Douchebag.
arvint Gum me na reh aur rum ka peg maar aur pitt dal usko
Love Guru Swastik Castings Jaipur, the more I read your post the more it reminds me of a TV soap. You really think your wife would be fine with you saying 'love you' to another woman on the phone, and you think she acted thus because she respects you? You better come out of your delusion quickly and try making up to your wife, and try not repeating your mistake again
Love Guru Arvind Agarwal, if you don't approach her quickly someone else may and it will be entirely your loss. Get over your inhibitions and approach her, it is not like she is going to have your head for it. The worst that can happen is she may say no to you.