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Thank you all for being here, folks. Let's chat again, next Thursday at 3 pm!

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Kalpana-Roy

hi, I have to decide who am I supposed to marry... I don't have a bf... I wanted to know how would u suggest if you had to marry fast...thanks

hi, I have to decide who am I supposed to marry... I don't have a bf... I wanted to know how would u suggest if you had to marry fast...thanks #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
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Kalpana-Roy

in an arranged marriage setup does one find love... nowadays people are so much cheating even in a love marriage or affair..... people want a gf and a wife together...I was wondering how does one find love in any marriage with infidelities

in an arranged marriage setup does one find love... nowadays people are so much cheating even in a love marriage or affair..... people want a gf and a wife together...I was wondering how does one find love in any marriage with infidelities #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
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prabhakar-prasad

Sir,Ma laki sa Baut payer kart hu aur meri sadi ho gaye ha.laki ma apni bavi sa baut payer kart hu

Sir,Ma laki sa Baut payer kart hu aur meri sadi ho gaye ha.laki ma apni bavi sa baut payer kart hu #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
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sudarshan

I am interested in girls .but i dont want to lying try to impress girls acting like a hero...trying to impress by telling lies and mainly talking too much without any reason mainly nonsense chatting...do you really feel i will ever get a girlfriend in this way?any slight chance

I am interested in girls .but i dont want to lying try to impress girls acting like a hero...trying to impress by telling lies and mainly talking too much without any reason mainly nonsense chatting...do you really feel i will ever get a girlfriend in this way?any slight chance #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
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AMAR DESHMUKH

I 43 yrs. attracted towards 32 yrs woman in the office. We have coffee with each other, where i gave her yellow rose (is it mistake?). After one week i invited her again for a coffee. She accepted, but after some time, she refused to come as her one family member is ill. Now, she is not even speaking with me or rather going away from me. why?

I 43 yrs. attracted towards 32 yrs woman in the office. We have coffee with each other, where i gave her yellow rose (is it mistake?). After one week i invited her again for a coffee. She accepted, but after some time, she refused to come as her one family member is ill. Now, she is not even speaking with me or rather going away from me. why? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
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nilesh

hi LG I am single. need a friend ............... kindly help

hi LG I am single. need a friend ............... kindly help #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
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hallow sir

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arshad

past 5 month i love a girl...few days back i propse to her but she told to me she will come later but she didn't came whats the reason?

past 5 month i love a girl...few days back i propse to her but she told to me she will come later but she didn't came whats the reason? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
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sushan

Hi, I was married since 4 years back now I have two child, but still my x- gf unmarried and she wanted me even she know it is not happen anyway. Don't know what to do.

Hi, I was married since 4 years back now I have two child, but still my x- gf unmarried and she wanted me even she know it is not happen anyway. Don't know what to do. #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
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Kalpana-Roy

hi, I have to decide who am I supposed to marry... I don't have a bf... I wanted to know how would u suggest if you had to marry fast...thanks

hi, I have to decide who am I supposed to marry... I don't have a bf... I wanted to know how would u suggest if you had to marry fast...thanks #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 week ago  Last updated : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Kalpana-Roy, you don't have a boyfriend but you have to decide who you are to marry. What kind of conundrum is that? I have no suggestions to make in this situation, on what you should do to get married fast

Kalpana-Roy, you don't have a boyfriend but you have to decide who you are to marry. What kind of conundrum is that? I have no suggestions to make in this situation, on what you should do to get married fast
1 week ago 
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Ajay kumar Go with your gut feeling.

Go with your gut feeling.
13 hours ago 

Love Guru Kalpana-Roy, sorry, but I have no solution to offer to this kind of blindman's buff. It's your decision, you cannot outsource it to someone else, least of all a faceless character like me you have not met in your life!

Kalpana-Roy, sorry, but I have no solution to offer to this kind of blindman's buff. It's your decision, you cannot outsource it to someone else, least of all a faceless character like me you have not met in your life!
13 hours ago 
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Kalpana-Roy

in an arranged marriage setup does one find love... nowadays people are so much cheating even in a love marriage or affair..... people want a gf and a wife together...I was wondering how does one find love in any marriage with infidelities

in an arranged marriage setup does one find love... nowadays people are so much cheating even in a love marriage or affair..... people want a gf and a wife together...I was wondering how does one find love in any marriage with infidelities #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
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karanisha hi, Kalpana Roy i agree with u bt .... if all understand that ki one who can trust and one who can understand. to fir dusrre kisi or ka chance hi nahi hai ..... that's the true love with each other....

hi, Kalpana Roy i agree with u bt .... if all understand that ki one who can trust and one who can understand. to fir dusrre kisi or ka chance hi nahi hai ..... that's the true love with each other....
3 days ago 
AK

Ajay kumar Hi, If you want to be loved, love unconditionally.

Hi, If you want to be loved, love unconditionally.
13 hours ago 

Love Guru Kalpana-Roy, there's no perfect marriage, arranged or love. It's a work in progress. The infidelities you mention are part of life,they are a reality, on both sides. How does one handle them, resolve them, are issues, couples face everyday. Is there a pat solution? No. Does it mean marriage as an institution is at risk? It is under pressure to transform. Maybe rules of engagement need to change?

Kalpana-Roy, there's no perfect marriage, arranged or love. It's a work in progress. The infidelities you mention are part of life,they are a reality, on both sides. How does one handle them, resolve them, are issues, couples face everyday. Is there a pat solution? No. Does it mean marriage as an institution is at risk? It is under pressure to transform. Maybe rules of engagement need to change?
13 hours ago 
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sudarshan

I am interested in girls .but i dont want to lying try to impress girls acting like a hero...trying to impress by telling lies and mainly talking too much without any reason mainly nonsense chatting...do you really feel i will ever get a girlfriend in this way?any slight chance

I am interested in girls .but i dont want to lying try to impress girls acting like a hero...trying to impress by telling lies and mainly talking too much without any reason mainly nonsense chatting...do you really feel i will ever get a girlfriend in this way?any slight chance #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Sudarshan, sure, you will get a girlfriend soon enough, keep us posted when that happens!

Sudarshan, sure, you will get a girlfriend soon enough, keep us posted when that happens!
13 hours ago 
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AMAR DESHMUKH

I 43 yrs. attracted towards 32 yrs woman in the office. We have coffee with each other, where i gave her yellow rose (is it mistake?). After one week i invited her again for a coffee. She accepted, but after some time, she refused to come as her one family member is ill. Now, she is not even speaking with me or rather going away from me. why?

I 43 yrs. attracted towards 32 yrs woman in the office. We have coffee with each other, where i gave her yellow rose (is it mistake?). After one week i invited her again for a coffee. She accepted, but after some time, she refused to come as her one family member is ill. Now, she is not even speaking with me or rather going away from me. why? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 day ago  Last updated : 13 hours ago
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Ajay kumar It seems she has no romantic inclination towards you.

It seems she has no romantic inclination towards you.
13 hours ago 

Love Guru Amar Deshmukh, you had asked me this question 3 weeks ago, when I had replied to this. Please look below for my response

Amar Deshmukh, you had asked me this question 3 weeks ago, when I had replied to this. Please look below for my response
13 hours ago 
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arshad

past 5 month i love a girl...few days back i propse to her but she told to me she will come later but she didn't came whats the reason?

past 5 month i love a girl...few days back i propse to her but she told to me she will come later but she didn't came whats the reason? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Arshad, it means that she is not interested in you. Did you have to ask me to know this? Wasn't it obvious otherwise?

Arshad, it means that she is not interested in you. Did you have to ask me to know this? Wasn't it obvious otherwise?
13 hours ago 
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sushan

Hi, I was married since 4 years back now I have two child, but still my x- gf unmarried and she wanted me even she know it is not happen anyway. Don't know what to do.

Hi, I was married since 4 years back now I have two child, but still my x- gf unmarried and she wanted me even she know it is not happen anyway. Don't know what to do. #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Sushan, it is always tempting when an old flame re-enters one's life, but I hope you will think with your brain, and not indulge in anything that will jeopardise your current life

Sushan, it is always tempting when an old flame re-enters one's life, but I hope you will think with your brain, and not indulge in anything that will jeopardise your current life
13 hours ago 
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Gajanan Bose

We have relation from last 4 years suddenly she left me all alone and from last 1 year i am trying to convense for to tell me the reason for leave me all alone she is ignoring me now what should i do please help me out i really love her need her to love please help me

We have relation from last 4 years suddenly she left me all alone and from last 1 year i am trying to convense for to tell me the reason for leave me all alone she is ignoring me now what should i do please help me out i really love her need her to love please help me #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Gajanan Bose, so you were in a relationship for 4 years, so she dropped you and moved on, while you have been unable to do so for the last one year. If you are looking for sympathy you've come to the wrong place. One year is enough time to get over a failed relationship, so get it into your head no amount of pining will bring her back, unlike in Bollywood. So get on with your life

Gajanan Bose, so you were in a relationship for 4 years, so she dropped you and moved on, while you have been unable to do so for the last one year. If you are looking for sympathy you've come to the wrong place. One year is enough time to get over a failed relationship, so get it into your head no amount of pining will bring her back, unlike in Bollywood. So get on with your life
13 hours ago 
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Raju Vohra

Is it easy to find love in arranged marriage? How do I choose the best partner for me without upsetting my parents?

Is it easy to find love in arranged marriage? How do I choose the best partner for me without upsetting my parents? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Raju Vohra, arranged marriage or love, both have an equal chance of success/failure, 50:50. Arranged marriage has a longer antiquity, and has survived, so I am sure it has its positives. About choosing your partner, why do you think it will upset your parents?

Raju Vohra, arranged marriage or love, both have an equal chance of success/failure, 50:50. Arranged marriage has a longer antiquity, and has survived, so I am sure it has its positives. About choosing your partner, why do you think it will upset your parents?
13 hours ago 
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krutika naik Love cannot be found anywhere .... only care and affection can be found ... i think thats enough for a person to survive in a marriage .... jst wait for right person .. i mean even if parents are chosing a guy 4 u , then examin the suspect throughly :))

Love cannot be found anywhere .... only care and affection can be found ... i think thats enough for a person to survive in a marriage .... jst wait for right person .. i mean even if parents are chosing a guy 4 u , then examin the suspect throughly :))
13 hours ago 
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Ajay kumar If you want to be Loved, Love unconditionally

If you want to be Loved, Love unconditionally
13 hours ago 
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Vinu Murthy

I m seeing this girl for long time in our society and become good friends. Now started to like her. Tomorrow is HOLI. We all friends plan for Holi party in resort. Should I propose her or any other day.

I m seeing this girl for long time in our society and become good friends. Now started to like her. Tomorrow is HOLI. We all friends plan for Holi party in resort. Should I propose her or any other day. #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Vinu Murthy, not enough information. When you say you've been 'seeing this girl', you mean you've been eyeing her, and not using 'seeing her' in the manner it is usually used, right? So when you say 'become good friends' I wonder what the reality is. Given that, should you go ahead with your plan? Sure, why not, after all it's Holi, worse indiscretions have been committed in its name, after all

Vinu Murthy, not enough information. When you say you've been 'seeing this girl', you mean you've been eyeing her, and not using 'seeing her' in the manner it is usually used, right? So when you say 'become good friends' I wonder what the reality is. Given that, should you go ahead with your plan? Sure, why not, after all it's Holi, worse indiscretions have been committed in its name, after all
13 hours ago 
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Imran Farooqui

I was seeing this girl last year but we wasn't official. Then in September we had a massive argument and stopped talking. I think that I'm over her. I don't think I feel anything for her but I cannot get her off my mind and it hurts because I know she's not thinking about me. Why can't I forget about her? How do I forget about her?

I was seeing this girl last year but we wasn't official. Then in September we had a massive argument and stopped talking. I think that I'm over her. I don't think I feel anything for her but I cannot get her off my mind and it hurts because I know she's not thinking about me. Why can't I forget about her? How do I forget about her? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Imran Farooqui, you are one conflicted soul, it seems. You say you are over her, you don't think you feel anything for her. At the same time you cannot get her off your mind, hurts to think that she may not be thinking about you. Looks like your male ego has been mighty bruised. Get over such trivial thoughts, and move on, will you?

Imran Farooqui, you are one conflicted soul, it seems. You say you are over her, you don't think you feel anything for her. At the same time you cannot get her off your mind, hurts to think that she may not be thinking about you. Looks like your male ego has been mighty bruised. Get over such trivial thoughts, and move on, will you?
13 hours ago 
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clarissaanita deb

When can we understand that a guy whom we have been with for very long is no longer interested in us? Is that when we should call it quits?

When can we understand that a guy whom we have been with for very long is no longer interested in us? Is that when we should call it quits? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Clarisaanita deb, hopefully you will have figured it out before writing in to me? Come on, it can't be that difficult to read the signs, can it? The usual signs are not being available on phone, in person, via email, nothing. And when finally do get through, you will get a fairytale for excuse. Once is okay, but twice,thrice..? Make up your mind what you want to do, then

Clarisaanita deb, hopefully you will have figured it out before writing in to me? Come on, it can't be that difficult to read the signs, can it? The usual signs are not being available on phone, in person, via email, nothing. And when finally do get through, you will get a fairytale for excuse. Once is okay, but twice,thrice..? Make up your mind what you want to do, then
13 hours ago 
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Md-Aadil Nasim

How I tell about my gf to my family???????? kindly help..........

How I tell about my gf to my family???????? kindly help.......... #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Md-Aadil Nasim, what's wrong, you come from a family of ogres? No, right. So tell them exactly how you have told them of other momentous events in your life. Why presume that they will be against your girlfriend?

Md-Aadil Nasim, what's wrong, you come from a family of ogres? No, right. So tell them exactly how you have told them of other momentous events in your life. Why presume that they will be against your girlfriend?
13 hours ago 
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deepikadeewani

I just started dating my best friend. he wants us to kiss. every time he tries I turn my head. I just don't want it to be weird because we were friends before

I just started dating my best friend. he wants us to kiss. every time he tries I turn my head. I just don't want it to be weird because we were friends before #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago
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karanisha hi if he love u and u love him them its kk

hi if he love u and u love him them its kk
13 hours ago 

Love Guru Deepikadeewani, seems to be like you have not cleared it in your mind that he is not your best friend, you two are dating now. The rules of engagement have changed. He is right in expecting what he does. Unless you feel you've been blindsided into this relationship, or worse still, he has halitosis, you can't be doing this. If former, clarify and revert to earlier status. If latter, buy mouthwash

Deepikadeewani, seems to be like you have not cleared it in your mind that he is not your best friend, you two are dating now. The rules of engagement have changed. He is right in expecting what he does. Unless you feel you've been blindsided into this relationship, or worse still, he has halitosis, you can't be doing this. If former, clarify and revert to earlier status. If latter, buy mouthwash
13 hours ago 
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Chinmay Thakur

Hello I am Chinmay I asked the question before, to note I am not actually sure if she likes me in a romantic way. The more I thought about it the more I thought she may have been flirting. I may be wrong of course.

Hello I am Chinmay I asked the question before, to note I am not actually sure if she likes me in a romantic way. The more I thought about it the more I thought she may have been flirting. I may be wrong of course. #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Chinmay Thakur, there are many kinds of flirting. There's casual flirting, innocent flirting, no strings attached flirting, and there's serious flirting. Being a uni-dimensional specie, the male finds it hard to differentiate between them. In your case, I think she was just indulging in a bit of casual flirting, not to be taken seriously. When a woman wants you to know, you will know

Chinmay Thakur, there are many kinds of flirting. There's casual flirting, innocent flirting, no strings attached flirting, and there's serious flirting. Being a uni-dimensional specie, the male finds it hard to differentiate between them. In your case, I think she was just indulging in a bit of casual flirting, not to be taken seriously. When a woman wants you to know, you will know
13 hours ago 
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Seema Dutt

Okay so my boyfriend purposely makes himself broke because every time I ask for something he always explain how he's broke and he always has an excuse which doesn't add up.I use to always pay for stuff for him and when I ask for something small he says he's broke,Yet when the time comes for something he some how gets money. What should I do?

Okay so my boyfriend purposely makes himself broke because every time I ask for something he always explain how he's broke and he always has an excuse which doesn't add up.I use to always pay for stuff for him and when I ask for something small he says he's broke,Yet when the time comes for something he some how gets money. What should I do? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Seema Dutt, congratulations, you've landed with the boyfriend type known as the Cadge. His behaviour patterns are typical, he will always have an empty wallet when it comes to shelling out, at restaurants, cinemas, malls. But he will never seem to run out of money when it comes to spending on himself. These guys believe they are god's gift to womenkind, so why bother spending? Cure: A hard knock

Seema Dutt, congratulations, you've landed with the boyfriend type known as the Cadge. His behaviour patterns are typical, he will always have an empty wallet when it comes to shelling out, at restaurants, cinemas, malls. But he will never seem to run out of money when it comes to spending on himself. These guys believe they are god's gift to womenkind, so why bother spending? Cure: A hard knock
13 hours ago 
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Saroj Khan

Ive been dating a guy for nearly 3months whom my friend set me up with . Since we ve been dating she has been phoning him and has taken him out for breakfast a few times.He says they are just friends and I shouldn't feel jealous or insecure. Is he right about this?

Ive been dating a guy for nearly 3months whom my friend set me up with . Since we ve been dating she has been phoning him and has taken him out for breakfast a few times.He says they are just friends and I shouldn't feel jealous or insecure. Is he right about this? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Saroj Khan, you have a problem at hand, a friend who doesn't know when to step back. Your problem, first, is her. Your boyfriend is exhibiting typical male behaviour pattern, where attention by the opposite specie is all-too-welcome. Before you cure him of this, you need to have a heart-to-heart with your friend who, because she set you up, may feel proprietorial. Be prepared for unpleasantness

Saroj Khan, you have a problem at hand, a friend who doesn't know when to step back. Your problem, first, is her. Your boyfriend is exhibiting typical male behaviour pattern, where attention by the opposite specie is all-too-welcome. Before you cure him of this, you need to have a heart-to-heart with your friend who, because she set you up, may feel proprietorial. Be prepared for unpleasantness
13 hours ago 
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Sukhvinder Agah

Hi Love Guru. Why is love so complicated?

Hi Love Guru. Why is love so complicated? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Sukhvinder Agah, love is not complicated, human beings are complicated creatures and complexify everything they do. Love is just another casualty to human problems

Sukhvinder Agah, love is not complicated, human beings are complicated creatures and complexify everything they do. Love is just another casualty to human problems
13 hours ago 
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neetasinha

LG, a friend recently said that he loves me, but I don't love him. He said he would end his life if I did not accept him. What should I do?

LG, a friend recently said that he loves me, but I don't love him. He said he would end his life if I did not accept him. What should I do? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 13 hours ago

Love Guru Neetasinha, that's blackmail pure and simple. You could ignore him but what if he carries out what he's threatened to? Worse, such types are known to leave behind notes blaming innocents for their death, causing them untold misery. If there are responsible persons around, like his teachers, colleagues/boss, parents, please taken them into confidence, tell them what is what, let them handle him

Neetasinha, that's blackmail pure and simple. You could ignore him but what if he carries out what he's threatened to? Worse, such types are known to leave behind notes blaming innocents for their death, causing them untold misery. If there are responsible persons around, like his teachers, colleagues/boss, parents, please taken them into confidence, tell them what is what, let them handle him
13 hours ago 
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Kalpana-Roy

that's not reality nowadays whether its marriage or love , sorry... morals people don't have nowadays to stick to one person but thanks for your answer

that's not reality nowadays whether its marriage or love , sorry... morals people don't have nowadays to stick to one person but thanks for your answer #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 week ago

Love Guru People still do have morals, Kalpana-Roy, it is just that they have changed, because society itself has changed. Morals cannot be rigid, unchanging, forever.They keep evolving, and based on them our interactions and relationships too change. That's the nature of the world we live in

People still do have morals, Kalpana-Roy, it is just that they have changed, because society itself has changed. Morals cannot be rigid, unchanging, forever.They keep evolving, and based on them our interactions and relationships too change. That's the nature of the world we live in
1 week ago 
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Vinayak Tavade

Is it ok to be with a girl who is very complex about everything, my gf diubts me for everything, doubts me for what i havent done as well, its really frustrating , whrt should i do?

Is it ok to be with a girl who is very complex about everything, my gf diubts me for everything, doubts me for what i havent done as well, its really frustrating , whrt should i do? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 week ago

Love Guru Vinayak Tavade, that's not a great place to be in, always under suspicion.But I hope it is not because of your behaviour that she is reacting like this? Is she a naturally suspicious person? Does her suspicion extend to other relationships in her life, other situations,as well, or only towards you? If the former, then she is suspicious by nature; if the latter, then it is because of you

Vinayak Tavade, that's not a great place to be in, always under suspicion.But I hope it is not because of your behaviour that she is reacting like this? Is she a naturally suspicious person? Does her suspicion extend to other relationships in her life, other situations,as well, or only towards you? If the former, then she is suspicious by nature; if the latter, then it is because of you
1 week ago 
VT

Vinayak Tavade yes she is suspicious about everything , ia havent done anything, i simply cant understand why she is doing this?

yes she is suspicious about everything , ia havent done anything, i simply cant understand why she is doing this?
1 week ago 

Love Guru VinayakTawde, apart from this suspicious nature, I am sure there are many redeeming, wonderful qualities about her. If you really love her, why don't you focus on them, pay more attention to them, and let this be in the background? After all, there is no perfect relationship, because there is no perfect human being. All of us have flaws, as do you. Underplay the negatives, go for the positives

VinayakTawde, apart from this suspicious nature, I am sure there are many redeeming, wonderful qualities about her. If you really love her, why don't you focus on them, pay more attention to them, and let this be in the background? After all, there is no perfect relationship, because there is no perfect human being. All of us have flaws, as do you. Underplay the negatives, go for the positives
1 week ago 
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tweety

A girl in her 20's had an intimate relationship with a guy in his mid 30's and he is a divorcee waiting for second marriage. She wants to marry him but he says he cannot marry her and feels guilty. But he continues to have the realtion with her. LG please help that girl how can she marry him?

A girl in her 20's had an intimate relationship with a guy in his mid 30's and he is a divorcee waiting for second marriage. She wants to marry him but he says he cannot marry her and feels guilty. But he continues to have the realtion with her. LG please help that girl how can she marry him? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 week ago

Love Guru Tweety, he doesn't love her, he doesn't want to marry her, thank god at least he is being honest about it. So, if the girl hopes to change his mind, she won't succeed. But if she is okay with continuing in a futureless relationship, she can stay.But very likely, when he finds a woman to marry, he won't be interested in her. Those are the rules within which she will need to play

Tweety, he doesn't love her, he doesn't want to marry her, thank god at least he is being honest about it. So, if the girl hopes to change his mind, she won't succeed. But if she is okay with continuing in a futureless relationship, she can stay.But very likely, when he finds a woman to marry, he won't be interested in her. Those are the rules within which she will need to play
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Parwez Khan

hi LG i love someone but iam doubtful about her i don't know she love me truely or not.because some times she avoid me and she not wanted to talk with me she talling lie. and suddenly she trying to talk with me.so plz tell me what i have to do...

hi LG i love someone but iam doubtful about her i don't know she love me truely or not.because some times she avoid me and she not wanted to talk with me she talling lie. and suddenly she trying to talk with me.so plz tell me what i have to do... #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 week ago

Love Guru Parwez Khan, if you don't know if she loves you truly, then, rather than breaking your head over it and ruining your peace of mind, I suggest that you ask her outright about it, and why she avoids you at times and doesn't talk to you properly. From my perch I can give you an opinion but it won't be. To know the truth, you need to talk to her, ask her about it

Parwez Khan, if you don't know if she loves you truly, then, rather than breaking your head over it and ruining your peace of mind, I suggest that you ask her outright about it, and why she avoids you at times and doesn't talk to you properly. From my perch I can give you an opinion but it won't be. To know the truth, you need to talk to her, ask her about it
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Vibhav Sharma

im in a relationship wid a grl for last 2yr but still she cudnt get ovr her ex what am i supposed to do?

im in a relationship wid a grl for last 2yr but still she cudnt get ovr her ex what am i supposed to do? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 week ago

Love Guru Vibhav Sharma, that's a tough one. Two years is a long time to get over someone. Why don't you tell her that her behaviour undermines your feelings, and share your feelings with her? It could also be that she is not seeing this current relationship as something serious. If you are serious about it/her, share your thoughts with her. Maybe she will change her mind after you speak to her about it

Vibhav Sharma, that's a tough one. Two years is a long time to get over someone. Why don't you tell her that her behaviour undermines your feelings, and share your feelings with her? It could also be that she is not seeing this current relationship as something serious. If you are serious about it/her, share your thoughts with her. Maybe she will change her mind after you speak to her about it
1 week ago 
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Amol Dhurve

i love a girl, she works in my office , i havent spoken to her yet, we work in the same opffice but different department, i want to talk to her , how do start the conversation? -plz give some tips

i love a girl, she works in my office , i havent spoken to her yet, we work in the same opffice but different department, i want to talk to her , how do start the conversation? -plz give some tips #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 week ago

Love Guru Amol Dhurve, working in the same office is the easiest way to break the ice. There are so many places and occasions one can naturally start a conversation. Be friendly, be polite, and you will find it all coming easily to you

Amol Dhurve, working in the same office is the easiest way to break the ice. There are so many places and occasions one can naturally start a conversation. Be friendly, be polite, and you will find it all coming easily to you
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Virendra Raje

i love to a girl she know that it very well but she never under stood my feeling i have drop so much msg or call to her but she not responding to me.i cant live without her plz suggest wht i do ?she always reply to me plz understand my problem me majboor hu.

i love to a girl she know that it very well but she never under stood my feeling i have drop so much msg or call to her but she not responding to me.i cant live without her plz suggest wht i do ?she always reply to me plz understand my problem me majboor hu. #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 week ago

Love Guru Virendra Raje, I hope some day soon you will realise that she doesn't reciprocate your feelings and that you will be able to walk away from it all. She may like you, but she doesn't love you. Probably she doesn't want to hurt you so she is not being blunt with you, maybe hoping that you will get the message. So get the message, the sooner the better for you, and move on

Virendra Raje, I hope some day soon you will realise that she doesn't reciprocate your feelings and that you will be able to walk away from it all. She may like you, but she doesn't love you. Probably she doesn't want to hurt you so she is not being blunt with you, maybe hoping that you will get the message. So get the message, the sooner the better for you, and move on
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shirish

i am pretty confused when it comes to gbet married, as my heart was broken by my gf, i cannot trust anyone now, my parents want me to get married, i cant undestand what to do? please help

i am pretty confused when it comes to gbet married, as my heart was broken by my gf, i cannot trust anyone now, my parents want me to get married, i cant undestand what to do? please help #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 week ago

Love Guru shirish, if everyone who had their heart broken were to not get married, this world would be full of single people! What I am saying is that these things happen to everyone, the trick is not to get bogged down by the experience, but to move on. Give yourself time to get over the breakup,and approach romance with a positive outlook.

shirish, if everyone who had their heart broken were to not get married, this world would be full of single people! What I am saying is that these things happen to everyone, the trick is not to get bogged down by the experience, but to move on. Give yourself time to get over the breakup,and approach romance with a positive outlook.
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suman singh

i really love a guy, we study in the same college and same tutions, i really love him but how do i start a conversation with him?

i really love a guy, we study in the same college and same tutions, i really love him but how do i start a conversation with him? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 week ago

Love Guru suman singh, very easily. Just walk up to him and start talking. But it's quite amazing that without talking to him you have concluded that you are in love with him. Hopefully,you won't change your mind later!

suman singh, very easily. Just walk up to him and start talking. But it's quite amazing that without talking to him you have concluded that you are in love with him. Hopefully,you won't change your mind later!
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kunika

Hi LG, i have just come out of a relation, its been a month and half, my gf broke up with me , is it fine to be in a relation just after one and half month of break up?

Hi LG, i have just come out of a relation, its been a month and half, my gf broke up with me , is it fine to be in a relation just after one and half month of break up? #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 week ago

Love Guru kunika, is there a legally approved cooling off time before one enters into a relationship following a breakup? No. This time varies from person to person. It is good if you have managed to a) get over the breakup and b) found someone else, so soon

kunika, is there a legally approved cooling off time before one enters into a relationship following a breakup? No. This time varies from person to person. It is good if you have managed to a) get over the breakup and b) found someone else, so soon
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aaryan joshi

hiii..i am 23. i am in love wid my classmate since last 4 months.at starting our relationship is going decently.but she doesn't talk to me last 2 months, reason is that she lied her ex that she had a relation wid me. so aftr dt she brokeup wid me and patched up with her ex. how can i bring her back in my life please help me.

hiii..i am 23. i am in love wid my classmate since last 4 months.at starting our relationship is going decently.but she doesn't talk to me last 2 months, reason is that she lied her ex that she had a relation wid me. so aftr dt she brokeup wid me and patched up with her ex. how can i bring her back in my life please help me. #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 week ago

Love Guru Aaryan Joshi, seems to me that she came to you on the rebound after breaking up with her boyfriend, and went back to him after a patchup. There's really nothing much you can do in such a situation, but lick your wounds and maybe blame your luck.

Aaryan Joshi, seems to me that she came to you on the rebound after breaking up with her boyfriend, and went back to him after a patchup. There's really nothing much you can do in such a situation, but lick your wounds and maybe blame your luck.
1 week ago 
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saibhangsingh

Hey Buddy, I like a girl from the last 6 years maybe, she was my pretty good friend,then I started liking her, i told some of my friends, and apparently they told her, after which she stopped talking to me. now she doesn't chat or anything. I actually like her a lot, please suggest what can i do.

Hey Buddy, I like a girl from the last 6 years maybe, she was my pretty good friend,then I started liking her, i told some of my friends, and apparently they told her, after which she stopped talking to me. now she doesn't chat or anything. I actually like her a lot, please suggest what can i do. #LIVE-Love-Guru-Chat
Posted : 1 week ago

Love Guru saibhangsingh, if she was your pretty good friend why did you have to take the roundabout route of telling your friends and they telling her? That, possibly, put her off you. But you can still make amends to her. Have you tried talking to her? Does she ignore you?

saibhangsingh, if she was your pretty good friend why did you have to take the roundabout route of telling your friends and they telling her? That, possibly, put her off you. But you can still make amends to her. Have you tried talking to her? Does she ignore you?
1 week ago