Love Guru Nitin Badesha, possible. Women are known to use this strategy to fend off unwanted attention
Love Guru Ria D'souza, any ethical issues in doing it? Most people I know don't feel so strongly against watching porn. Why does your girlfriend insist you do, btw?
Love Guru Ambani Organics, let me get this straight. Your boyfriend cheated on you, and he told you not to come back into his life, and you miss him, you can't live without him? But he seems to be managing splendidly without you, isn't it? You can try to worm your way back into his life, but I am afraid things won't change for the better
Love Guru Arun Joshi/Anna, your wife needs some expert help. There are any number of new age therapies being offered, some of which I am told are very effective for intra-personal conflicts.Maybe the two of you should enroll for one and see?
Love Guru Dhanpal, it seems to me you have been seeing too many Bollywood movies, don't believe everything you see there, it's a world of make-believe.
Love Guru Megha Nambiar, tough one. You suspect he hasn't gotten over her fully? You may be right. Many men have issues with applying full closure. Every relationship has its set of red lines that cannot be crossed, you need to sit him down and explain it to him patiently and in a language he understands
Love Guru P B, the golden days are after the marriage, not between engagement and marriage. Her behaviour is correct. Yours, on the other hand, is like that of a famine victim on seeing a banquet. Get a hold of yourself and wait
Prakash Sharma hmm one of my frenz who had to cancel his engagement becoz his would be was not happy with his busy schedule . talk to her directly before its too late
Naresh Kumar then try to make some new girlfriend, she erase her memories from your mind.
Prakash Sharma so u r waiting for her to find another guy.. if you know exactly where she works.what she is doing, u have to go and tell her as the feelings between u both is mutual
Prakash Sharma life will be wonderful only if life partner and soul mate r one person.
Prakash Sharma obviously because u think she has a better career than u . Maybe you have that complex. Or else you would have gone straight n told her what u feel for her
Love Guru Garla Raghavendra Babu, did it ever strike you that what you describe as 'silly things' may not be silly for her? For her, possibly they mean the most, and her anger is because you are not seeing it from her, vulnerable, viewpoint but are seeing it from your unthinking male perspective which tends to dismiss most things it doesn't agree with as silly.
manali-sutar How to tackle this situation. I dont want to lose him. Dont say to forget him. Coz that is the main part which i cant do.
Love Guru Manali-Sutar, you can hang around but seems obvious from what you describe that he has lost interest in you. In just two months, you ask? Yeah, it's known to happen. Now you can make a doormat of yourself with him, or get a life and move on.
Prakash Sharma why to get rid of her !! Just because she works for HCL ?
Love Guru Dhanpal, no, hate is not the right word here, she is annoyed by what she thinks is your interest in her. She may be sitting at her window for any number of reasons, but she doesn't want you think she is waiting for you. Because men are known to jump to this and many more silly assumptions
Love Guru Gajanan Bose, who said one always wants to marry the person one loves? People are known to choose differently for a relationship and for marriage. Possibly she feels that while you are relationship material, you are not marriage material. Don't ask me why she feels that way,I don't have an answer to that one
Love Guru Minnie, as I was telling someone else just now, a soul mate is different from a life partner. A life partner is the steady beam of the lighthouse which helps us in our voyage through life; soul mates are like the fleeting stars in the sky that make our journey memorable and pleasant. You can't mistake one for the other
Love Guru Naresh Kumar, no, LG was stuck in traffic, that's all, and since I drive myself I couldn't start my laptop till I reached my office. Sorry about that
Mohammedi Naalwala hi sara r u really luking for true luv
Love Guru Sarah, let me ask you a counter-question. What makes you think there isn't such a thing as a soul mate? The mistake we often make is that we fill the soul mate concept with romance and relationship etc. A soul mate could be anyone who shares a few beautiful moments with you, is on the same page as you for however brief a while. Haven't you had such an experience? And yet you ask?
KEEMTI KUMAR Mine are but Im not sure about her family as they are hardcore Rajputs
Naresh Kumar Just keep silence for 2 or 3 months. After that she will accept you. Guaranteed.Don't worry.
Love Guru Lalji Margasahayam, let me ask you what I ask everyone who has a similar complaint. Assume the roles were reversed, you caught her cheating, will you take her back? What would you have her do in order to take her back? Now try applying your answers to yourself
Love Guru Naresh Kumar, maybe you could look in the dictionary? But seriously, in life the rule is quite simple, what you put out comes back to you, call this what you will. So rather than look for true love elsewhere, find it within yourself and it will get reciprocated
Love Guru Gajanan Bose, if you have to try, I think it's going to be an uphill task. She doesn't trust you when you are being yourself, is it?
Love Guru Shankar Kathurde, she means she only wants to remain friends with you, lest you get any ideas since she is hanging around with you. Geddid?
Love Guru Madhumita Ghosh, you have a problem on hand. Either you have a wedding coming up, or a new partner, I think
Love Guru Vinu Murthy, more worthy men and women than I have attempted to find the answer to your question. I don't have an answer, I am afraid.
Love Guru Megha Nambiar, the biggest problem I have come across is that couples mistake love for possessiveness, when it should mean the exact opposite.
Love Guru Aprosh Aarsiwala, have you shared the password of your phone with her? Ok, you have. But that doesn't naturally mean that she has to share hers with you, right? Heard of something called privacy? I suggest you learn to respect it in others, however close they maybe to you
Love Guru Simon Xavier, tough ask, that. I mean, I have not in my time come across a long distance relationship that's held on beyond two years. Relationships need presence, which in turn dispels insecurity. But this is not to discourage you, no. Give it your best shot, and hope it works for you:)
Love Guru Rajni Negi, the most important point here what does your partner want, I get a sense of what you want, but not what he wants. If his family is unrelenting, but if he is with you all the way, will he agree to step out of their shadow? Ask him that. Your course of action cannot be unilateral, but will have to involve him fully
Naresh Kumar Forgetting her is the best remedy. find some new girl n enjoy the life.
Naresh Kumar don't think about past. bright future ahead.
Love Guru Mohammad Irshad, your story sounds sad. How long do you plan to wallow in this self-pity, tragic lover kind of thing? Merely because you pine for her doesn't mean she is going to change her mind. I suggest you forget her, and get on with your life
Love Guru Sahota Papers, I think you've come to the wrong place. What you need is not the Love Guru but a divorce lawyer, I think
Love Guru Arumugam, this seems like corporate espionage at its best, or worst, depending on how you see it. Have you thought of going to the economic crimes police, assuming you have proof of what you say? And next time, don't mix business and friendship
Naresh Kumar it happens with so many guys. just find some new girl n enjoy
Love Guru Rajendra Agrawal, there are many things you can do. But what is it that you'd like to do?